The Mabbitt Family is on the road and heading home. They’ll be stopping in Ohio this evening and will be back in Indianapolis some time tomorrow.

Libby ate very well this morning and I was told she’s in full-belly coma mode at the moment wearing her Baby’s 1st Christmas PJs (courtesy of the Adams Family).

So, here is our itinerary.

Tonight – Pack and mentally prepare for a long drive with a 5 day old baby.

Tomorrow – Spend time in the morning with birthmom and birthdad. Get on the road around 10:30/11:00-ish. Drive halfway. Stop for the night and try to recover from first leg with a 5 day old baby

Christmas Day – Finish the second half of the drive. Arrive home exhausted, but very happy with a 6 day old Christmas baby.

You know how we’ve been saying over and over again how crazy we thought the Virginia lawyer was about this quixotic quest to get our paperwork completed within a few days? Everytime he repeated his mantra of having us home for Christmas, everyone else in the room smiled politely and exchanged the kind of knowing glances you might when a small child tells you he wants to grow up to be a pirate or a fire truck.

He did it. All the papers have been filed and approved. Stanton Phillips has officially accomplished something no one else believed in. Let that be a lesson to you, Libby. You can accomplish anything if you just ignore all right-thinking people who tell you it’s impossible.

What to do, what to do…

Let me paint you a picture. I just had my very poop-tastic diaper changed and started feeling a bit peckish. So, I signaled mom and dad that I could use a snack. While I was getting my belly all fulled up, I pooped again. Now, here comes the tricky part. While mommy was burping me, I feel quite asleep. I had been pretty wound up for a while so I really needed to catch a power nap. Mommy knew I had a poopy diaper again, but she didn’t know whether to change me and risk waking me up or just let it go.

Luckily, my Aunt Molly called right then. Since she’s already had two babies, she knew just what to do. She told my mom and dad not to wake a sleeping baby just for a diaper change. She was right, I have been asleep now for 2 hours and I may just keep on sleeping. My bottom will be fine and I will let you know when I want it changed. I know you already have diaper rash cream ready to go for when I need it so no worries, mom and dad.

Thanks Aunt Molly!

Would it be nice to spend Christmas back home in Indiana? Well, certainly. But we did make preparations to have a great Christmas morning no matter where we are. Nevertheless, our Virginia lawyer has decided that he will take anything less than a Hoosier holiday as a personal insult.

I’m certainly cheering him on. Heaven he knows he’s got a better understanding of all the legal processes than I do, but this just seems ambitious.

Here’s a picture of the Christmas corner in our hotel room. The tree was generously provided by Grams. (and, yes, I always wrap presents in aluminum foil)

Hi everyone!

All is well here…now. Last night got a bit rough. Clay had Libby during quite a fussy spell. She was dry and fed, but not happy. She settled down close to 6am and since then has been pretty predictable. We had been told that 3-4 hour feeding was pretty normal. Not our little angel. She likes to get up every 2 hours with either a soiled diaper or a need for food. We have decided to take advantage of the 2nd bedroom in our hotel. We are alternating on who is on baby duty and the other one of us is getting some unbroken sleep in the 2nd bedroom. We started that this morning and so far so good. The real test will be tonight. Currently Clay is sleeping and is scheduled to get up at 8:30pm. His shift is timed so that he and Libby can watch the Bears game. Good to see that although our lives are in a huge transition, some things never change.

We heard from VA lawyer today. The VA paper work is good to go. Now the ball is in Indiana’s court. Not sure how long it will take. We should know more tomorrow or Wed about when we might be heading home.

Today was Libby’s pediatrician appt. She is as normal and healthy as they get. Blood good, size good, feeding good, pee/poop good. She peed on the pediatrician so that aspect of normalcy was super confirmed. We couldn’t be happier about her health. At one point during the pregnancy there was a minor concern about her heart. It showed up a little funny on one of the sonograms. Concern is gone. Her heart is just as it should be.

In an effort to get back to a little bit of normal, I attempted to do some baking in our hotel kitchen. If I wasn’t sure I was a new mom before, I am certainly sure now. I was sitting about 6 feet from the oven and managed to burn cut and bake cookies. Luckily, I only made half the package so there is hope for later and I did manage to make spaghetti last night so we aren’t going to starve.

Here are a few pics to tide you over until Clay updates the flickr feed:

The last pic was taken when we got back from the pediatrician. The whole thing just wore our little lady out. I don’t blame her. Wore me out too. That’s all for now.

We got back to the hotel, and Katy needed to run some errands. Libby and I were able to watch some football. The Steelers were down in the fourth quarter to the Titans.

At first I thought Libby was crying because she was a Pittsburgh fan. Then my daddy-sense started tingling, and I realized that she might need to be changed. Beneath the layers of tiny clothes, we finally got down to the diaper. I opened it up, and my baby girl did need to be changed. There was a modest amount of poo there in the diaper. (Daddy-sense +1)

As soon as my baby doll realized that I was cleaning her up, she decided that she wanted to help me feel useful. If I liked cleaning up a little bit of poo, then surely I would love cleaning up a lot of poo. I feel pretty good that she’s already got such a logical approach to life. I’m also delighted that she was looking for ways to make me feel good about myself.

At first I thought it was just a little bonus poo. I caught it with a baby wipe, handily preventing any from landing on the brand new diaper that was about to go on. Since I was patting myself on the back for that, Libby saw a great opportunity. She had more poop that she had been saving up for later, but now this seemed like a chance to get some good use out of it.

Many wipes and (surprisingly only) three diapers later, she had run out of steam. I figure it will take at least a few hours for her to build up her reserves again. Uh-oh. I gotta go. My daddy-sense is tingling.

The hospital has been great but I’m ready to leave the nest. I’ve got to spread my wings and fly. It’s time to put aside childish things and move onto the next phase of my life. Look out, world. Car rides: you’re first on my list. Get ready.

Well, at least I have one foot out the door. Clay and Libby are napping the morning away. Clay handled the 4am-8am shift this morning, so he is doing some much deserved snoozing. Libby also had that shift, so she joined him.

Last night was probably one of the worst night of sleep I have ever had. Because of Libby, you ask? Not even in the slightest. Our kid is extremely easy to read right now. She fusses just a bit when she needs something then as soon as she feels like you are even starting to address that need she calms right down. No, my sleep was a wreck because the corner of the room that I slept in is sub-Arctic. These rooms are nice and bright with three windows in them. Each room as a sleeping couch nestled in a little alcove between two windows. I slept on the couch because Clay is so tall he didn’t even fit. Despite the extra blanket that we scored from the nurses (bringing my blanket total up to 2) and despite my wearing not only long leave, long pant PJs but also 2 hooded jackets, I felt like I was slowly freezing to death all night. The windows create a pocket of December drafts that feel like being outdoors. I wanted Libby to stay awake so I could cuddle her for warmth, but no such luck. We have slowly discovered that Libby can’t settle into sleep very well yet while being held. Too much stimuli. So, into the crib she went and into an icicle I became. Even now as I sit here fully dressed with 3 hooded jackets on, I am freezing. Discharge here we come!!

Both birthparents signed their paperwork yesterday. It was an emotional time for all of us, but after the lawyers and extra family left we spend the evening with Libby in birthmoms room. Clay went and got us pizza and we munched and talked and watched TV till birthmom got sleepy. Then around 11pm birthdad came back to the hospital to spend the night here with birthmom. Libby stayed with them for a couple of hours while both Clay and I caught a nap.

I am really so thankful that the staff here has been so understanding of our situation. They let us freely take Libby for time in our room and time in their room. They have been so attentive and support of all 4 of us. We owe them letters of appreciation and possibly even some Christmas cookies if I can swing it. We did give the evening nurses a cheese pizza last night, so we are already on our way to paying off the enormous dept we owe them for all their kindness.

The hospital photographer is coming by shortly. I was so sad that they were already here today because Clay hasn’t gone back to the hotel yet to get Libby’s take home outfit. However, birthgrandmother saved the day. Yesterday she gave us a soft velour pink blanket and a pink santa hat for Libby that say’s baby’s first christmas. We waffled on whether or not to do pics here, but Molly and Steve’s pics of their boys from the hospital when there were born are just about my favorites ever. Also, hoorah for technology again! We can have the pics taken on the lowest package order more prints for up to a year. So, if they aren’t the best pics then we haven’t sunk a bundle. Of course, since Libby is practically perfect in every way I don’t see how her first picutre sitting would be anything less.

Here’s how I started my day and what a good day it is:

Hi internet. Just wanted to send out shout out to mom and dad. They got to hear me really cry for the first time tonight and everyone lived to tell the tale. No one even went into panic mode. They just cleaned my butt, got me a bottle, and waited me out. I’ll admit I didn’t keep up the drama queen act for too long. Just testing the waters for now. I think I am going to ease them into it. No need to go into a full-on fit till I am sure they can handle it. So far I give their performance two thumbs up.